So, I compiled 64-bit proprietary nvidia driver
on Salix 15.0 x64 xfce (by downloading and fully compiling kernel from
kernel.org, then using
NVIDIA-Linux-x86_64-470.199.02.run file from Nvidia website.
anf compiled ffmpeg 4.4 against ff-nvidia-headers from salix repo.
And fullhd video was going at 65 fps! Cingg was at just 30, but I guess this is expected due to all this redownloading via pci-e.
blog where I found info:
so, I hopefully have customized nvidia binary installer to test on live dvd my gpu's nvenc/nvdec !